Heal the parts of you that are hurting so you can lead with your heart.

IFS therapy

IFS therapy is a transformative approach that helps you understand the different internal voices and feelings that make up your unique personality. If you often feel like a part of you is overwhelmed with anxiety while another part of you tries to stay strong and keep everything together, you are already experiencing the natural multiplicity of the mind.

IFS therapy allows me to help you navigate these internal conflicts by identifying the "parts" of your system that are stuck in old patterns or carrying burdens from the past. Through this gentle and non-pathologizing process, I work with you to help your core Self—the calm, compassionate center of who you are—lead your life rather than being driven by fear or burnout.

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A Compassionate Path to Inner Harmony

As a mother and a therapist with 17 years of experience, I understand that the weight of raising children while managing your own internal world can feel heavy. You might find that a part of you feels guilty for wanting space, while another part feels resentful of the endless demands on your time. In our sessions, I use IFS therapy to help you listen to these parts without judgment. By understanding the protective roles these parts play, we can begin to release the tension and move toward a state of emotional regulation and peace.

I believe that every woman possesses an innate wisdom and a capacity for healing that remains undamaged by trauma or life transitions. My goal is to provide a safe, supportive environment where you can explore your internal landscape at your own pace. Whether you are navigating the complexities of an emotionally difficult marriage, betrayal trauma, or the stress of daily motherhood, IFS therapy offers a specific roadmap to help you feel more grounded and empowered. Together, we will work to unburden the parts of you that are tired so you can show up fully for yourself and your family.

How IFS therapy Can Support Your Growth

In my practice, I often work with women who feel like they are constantly battling themselves. One part of you might be a perfectionist that never lets you rest, while another part might feel small and invisible. Using IFS therapy, we stop the internal tug-of-war. Instead of trying to suppress or "fix" these feelings, we learn what they need from you to feel safe. This approach is particularly effective because it treats your symptoms—like anxiety, depression, or low self-worth—as messengers rather than enemies.

I weave this modality together with other evidence-based approaches like Polyvagal Theory to ensure we are also supporting your nervous system. This holistic focus means that as your internal parts begin to trust your core Self, your body also begins to relax out of a constant state of "fight or flight". You deserve to live a life where you are not just surviving, but thriving with a sense of meaning and connection.

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Frequently Asked Questions about IFS therapy

Who is IFS therapy recommended for?

I specifically recommend this approach for women and mothers who feel overwhelmed by internal conflict, anxiety, or the aftermath of trauma. It is excellent for those who want to move beyond symptom management and toward deep, lasting healing.

How many sessions does IFS therapy take?

The length of therapy is highly personalized to your unique needs and goals. While some women feel a shift in their internal clarity after a few sessions, others choose to engage in longer term work to unburden deeper attachment wounds.

How do I know if IFS therapy is working?

You will likely notice a greater sense of "Self-leadership," meaning you feel more calm, curious, and compassionate toward yourself and others. Many clients find they are less reactive to stress and feel more grounded in their daily lives.

What conditions does IFS therapy treat?

In my practice, I use it to treat a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, trauma (specifically betrayal trauma), and low self-worth. It is also incredibly effective for navigating life transitions and relationship challenges.

Can IFS therapy be done without a therapist?

While you can practice self-led check-ins, working with a licensed professional is vital for navigating complex trauma or deep-seated protective patterns. As your therapist, I provide the safe, external container needed for your system to feel secure enough to open up.

Are there any criticisms of IFS therapy?

Some find the concept of "parts" unusual at first; however, most clients find it is a very natural way to describe their experience of having conflicting feelings. My approach is always grounded in evidence and tailored to what feels most comfortable for you.

What is the 3 month rule in mental health?

While some use this as a benchmark for checking progress, I focus on your individual pace. We will regularly discuss how you are feeling to ensure our work together continues to feel meaningful and supportive of your growth.

How do you know if you need therapy?

If you feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, it may be time to reach out. If your inner critic is loud or you feel disconnected from your joy, therapy can help you find your way back to yourself.

Can I use IFS therapy without being certified? 

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 17 years of experience, I am professionally trained to guide you through this process safely. It is important to work with a qualified provider to ensure you are receiving ethically sound and effective care.

What are the warning signs of mental health issues in moms?

Common signs include persistent anxiety, feeling "drained" rather than refreshed, losing interest in things you once loved, or feeling like you are constantly in a "black hole". If fear is driving your decisions, I am here to help you regain control.

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Take the First Step Toward Healing

If you are ready to stop the internal conflict and start living with more clarity and confidence, I would love to connect with you. I offer online and in-person sessions to women in Uintah, UT, and surrounding areas. My intake process is designed to be simple and supportive because I know you already have enough on your plate.

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I provide compassionate, individualized therapy and coaching services designed specifically for women who want to heal, thrive, and live a joyful life. Operating in Uintah, UT, with online availability throughout Utah and Idaho, I draw upon my 17 years of experience to treat issues ranging from chronic stress and burnout to severe trauma and divorce. By utilizing somatic approaches and nervous system regulation alongside traditional therapies, I empower motivated mothers and women to break free from fear and regulate their emotions. My mission is to help you build resilience, establish boundaries, and confidently trust yourself again.

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